I used to read a lot of Civil War history. I don't have the quotations and passages at hand. But, I was always impressed by the courage and tenacity of the Southern women. Often, they would cross a street to avoid a Union officer! They sometimes seemed to me to be stronger than their men!You definitely get a sense of their mettle from the set of their jaws in this picture!
Here's some great accounts of Southern women in action...
http://www.factasy.com/civil_war/2008/03/02/ms_johnson039s_thoughts_women_and_confederacy
http://www.loyno.edu/~history/journal/1997-8/Matherne.html
http://www.missourilife.com/category/101/article/51-Missour_Civil_War_Women
http://www.civilwarhome.com/southernwomen.htm
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